Hello changemakers 👋

Ever feel like you're stuck on a never-ending to-do list treadmill? You start the day promising yourself you’ll get those 7 super important tasks done and you'll conquer your to-do list, but by the end of the day, tasks remain unfinished, guilt creeps in and the trust of your own words takes another hit.

We've all been there. The truth is, overcommitting and breaking promises, even to ourselves, erodes our confidence and impacts our relationships. But what if there was a way to break free and finally experience the power of keeping your word?

The good news is, there is!

But first, let me explain why keeping your word matters:

• Science says: Studies show trust in ourselves is crucial for success, happiness, and healthy relationships. Every promise kept strengthens that foundation.

• Real-life heroes: Think of the people you admire. Chances are, they're known for their reliability and integrity. It's a quality that attracts respect and fosters trust.

• The snowball effect: Each commitment kept builds momentum. You become more confident, tackle bigger goals, and attract amazing opportunities.

By prioritizing trust in yourself and your commitments, you unlock a world of increased productivity, deeper connections, and a life aligned with your values.

Ready to step off the treadmill and into your power? This is how you’ll do it.

Be a "No Ninja": Learn to say no gracefully

Let's face it, saying no can be tough. But just like a skilled ninja deflects blows, you can gracefully decline requests that drain your energy and derail your focus. Here's how:

• Be honest and transparent: Explain why you can't commit, like "I'm currently swamped with deadlines, but I'd love to help in the future."

• Offer alternatives: Suggest a different time or suggest someone else who might be able to assist.

• Express gratitude: Thank them for thinking of you and acknowledge the value of their request.

Chunk it down: Break big goals into bite-sized victories

Staring at a mountain of tasks can be paralyzing. Instead, channel your inner rock climber and break it down step-by-step:

• Define your ultimate goal: What do you want to achieve? Get specific!

• List the major milestones: What are the key steps to get there?

• Break each milestone into actionable tasks: Make them small, specific, and time-bound.

• Celebrate every victory: Acknowledge your progress, no matter how small.

For example, if your goal is to write a novel, your first milestone could be to develop a detailed outline. Break it down to tasks like "research setting," "create character profiles," and "write 3 chapter outlines." And don’t forget to celebrate finishing each task!

Forgive yourself: Kindness is key

Life happens, and sometimes we fall short. Don't let setbacks define you! If you miss a writing deadline due to unforeseen circumstances. Forgive yourself, adjust your schedule, and recommit to your goals with renewed determination. Remember, progress is key, not perfection!

By mastering the art of saying no, chunking your goals, and practicing self-compassion, you'll build the foundation for becoming an "unbreakable you". Remember, small and consistent steps lead to big transformations. Now go forth and conquer your commitments, looking forward to seeing what you’ll conquer next!

Cheers,

Ignasi 🚀

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Question of the week 🤔

When was a recent time you kept a promise to yourself, even when it was challenging? How did that impact your self-trust and confidence?

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